Collective Bliss, Collective Soul at the Tenth Annual Taos Solar Music Festival, June 28, 2008, photos © 2008 by Jim. All rights reserved.
Here are my souvenirs from Taos — numbness in my right ear and sore calves. Plus, that good kind of exhaustion you get from a night of dancing outdoors, near the stage, to the beat of your favorite band.
We spent the weekend at the Tenth Annual Taos Solar Music Festival. It’s a three-day, multi-band, two-stage event held in Kit Carson Park. Dee and Em’s first concert, not counting local gigs where no one would even think of lighting up a joint. No, Taos caused me pause — Do I even mention what that smell is?
I didn’t. Instead, I danced to the fabulous band who in the mid-1990s gave us “December,” the song I swear I wanted to record so I could play it on continuous loop during labor.
Soulful. That’s a good way to describe lead singer Ed Gould’s voice. He hails from Stockbridge, GA, son of a Southern Baptist minister. And I couldn’t believe I finally got to hear him in person. Twelve years I’ve been carrying around those lyrics, buying up CDs, and belting tunes in my car.
Define bliss: (outside-of-ten-years-if-they’re-lucky) middle-aged singers reaming strings and throwing microphone stands, wearing tight jeans and blowing kisses to their (assuming-we’re-all-destined-to-be-centenarian) middle-aged fans.
I danced my socks off, shook like I was possessed, rattled my arms in the air, whooped, hollered, whistled myself and everyone around me temporarily deaf, and caused my children to wonder, Is this
what they mean when they say someone is speaking in tongues?
My one saving grace? I wasn’t wearing a leather halter top.
Sweet Nectar
It was only natural that Jim, the Hummingbird Whisperer, would be mesmerized two bands earlier by the liquid flute of native son Robert Mirabal, who hails from Taos Pueblo. A man with a message, Mirabal thanked us for bringing our children. Not me and Jim directly, but all of us Glad-Bag-for-raincoats parents and grandparents.
Kids need music. “They hold the future in their hands,” he said. I shivered, stared up at the sky and wondered if the rest of the bands would get rained out.
Then he sang a Circle Song and laughed away the wind, bringing us a still night.
Circle Song, Robert Mirabal at the Tenth Annual Taos Solar Music Festival, June 28, 2008, photos © 2008 by Jim. All rights reserved.
Neither Jim nor I (nor anyone in the audience) could keep our eyes off of Silvana Kane, the Peruvian-born singer of Canadian band Pacifika. This woman was pure beauty, inside and out.
“Qué linda las mujeres de Taos,” she cooed. “How beautiful the women of Taos are, dancing in their skirts.”
We chanted back: “Qué linda!”
Beautiful Spirit, Pacifika at the Tenth Annual Taos Solar Music Festival, June 28, 2008, photos © 2008 by Jim. All rights reserved.
Swimming Down Morada Lane
We stayed at Casa Benavides — the Mabel Dodge Luhan House was full — and what a delight! Homemade granola, yogurt, and fruit as first course at breakfast, along with coffee so strong that even half-and-half couldn’t tame it. Baked goods, French toast, waffles, an egg quiche smothered in red or green.
And another round of baked anything-you-crave from 3-6 pm. Afternoon tea, Taos-style.
From our patio we could hear the music almost as well as if we were at the concert, so we took many walks down Morada Lane, from the park to the inn and back again.
The girls rested, played cards, watched cable, ate lemon bars and pecan pie. Jim and I walked, rested, rocked, rested. Besides the bands mentioned here, we saw or heard Latino sounds, reggae, hip hop, and more.
If you asked my daughters what they loved the most, they might not mention the music. They might say, instead, that they liked shopping the best. Window shopping during our many rounds back and forth, but even better were the Fair Trade vendors at the festival. Tye-dye and sterling silver earrings and beads. Girls love beads.
So in between ice cream and burritos and roasted corn — festival food — not to mention tea, my daughters visited all the vendors many times. Each round, Dee and Em would return bearing bracelets or rings, bought with their own money. I helped Dee pick out her first two single earrings, which is to say, earrings worn without a partner. As in a third piercing, perhaps. Hmmm.
I loved being with my family doing something we all enjoyed, together and individually. Jim danced his Grateful-Dead-inspired shuffle and it was as if our pre-children lives suddenly merged with our post-children lives. Why hadn’t we thought of this before?
My favorite moment? Me in the mosh pit (well, Taos-style) swaying and shaking with friends and strangers; Jim and the girls a safe distance, watching and doing bopping of their own.
Folk Mandala, yarn laid into intricate pattern, seen at the Tenth Annual Taos Solar Music Festival, June 28, 2008, photo © 2008 by Jim. All rights reserved.
“I love Collective Soul, Mom,” Dee tells me as we make our way back to our room.
“You dance like this, Mom,” Em giggles and wiggles her little body as she navigates the sidewalk, throwing her arms this way and that.
I can tell the girls see me anew. For once I’m not just Mom. I’m one with the music, one night in Taos.
That and shin splints.
ah, memories are made of this–the girls will forget the shopping but not the night mom was dancing 🙂
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ybonesy, what a FANTASTIC post! It’s all summer. And the joy that comes through in it from spending quality time with your family and Jim. Totally inspiring.
I read it to Liz this morning when she was getting ready for work and we were cracking up when we got to the part where you were dancing up a storm — and then your one saving grace – no halter top. 8) I can see you letting loose now. Doesn’t it feel good just to go wild once in a while?
Great photographs, too. Love the mandala. It’s so vibrant. And the photos of the bands are really fun. How do they fit all those people in Kit Carson park? The only times I’ve walked through there it’s been pretty mellow and slow moving.
Oh, and I’d be remiss without mentioning the Venus of Willendorf. She’s a beauty. Very peaceful. Great way to end the post. And as soon as I saw that mermaid on Morada Lane I knew exactly where I was.
Liz wants to get tickets to go see Gnarls Barkley in the Grandstand at the Minnesota State Fair. We haven’t been to an outdoor concert in a long time. After seeing your post, I’m looking even more forward to it!
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ybonesy, I just went back and checked out some of your links. I saw the BoDeans were there on Friday. I didn’t even know they were still playing together. They were pretty big here in the 90’s and are from Waukesha, Wisconsin. I used to really like them.
There’s an interview and live cut of Sweet on the Pacifika site. Silvana Kane was briefly in the West End Girls. It’s interesting to hear how the three came together and how their different musical sounds have blended into Pacifika. I had not heard their music before. In the interview, Silvana talks about how powerful words are — how Asunción, the title of the album, relates to the Virgin Mary, and about the title of the band — a great listen. Thanks for introducing me to them.
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Yes, the BoDeans still sound great, QM. That night we didn’t go to the concert but we heard them from our room clear as can be.
Re: Silvana, she had such a beautiful spirit. You could see it in her smile and how she moved. Also, although she was physically gorgeous, we (or myself, at least) were attracted to something deeper, I think. I wasn’t surprised when I checked out the website to learn that she was also a dancer and actress. She was so comfortable up there on the stage.
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Thanks, Scot. I hope you’re right.
QM, I knew you would love Venus of Willendorf. I tagged her on Flickr as such, after I found her name again in previous comments (LINK and LINK).
I wish I would have gotten the name of the gallery she was in. It was near the plaza, on the road to the park, just across from Bent St. She was sitting in the window. Jim noticed her on one of our several back-and-forth walks — we varied our route, sometimes through the park, sometimes by the stores. He snapped that shot; he was drawn to her, too.
The Gnarls Barkley concert sounds like fun. Is it this summer?
The Taos Solar Fest was well-organized. They had one point of entrance, not to the park but to the concert. They literally fenced off the area for the event.
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ybonesy, yes, I remember when you started doing and posting doodles of the Venus of Willendorf when we first started red Ravine. I love those drawings; it’s so great when an archetype comes out spontaneously like that, connecting all of us. Tell Jim the Taos Venus is very peaceful.
Yeah, Gnarls Barkley, Liz saw them on the Grandstand concert list for the MN State Fair yesterday and she’s all excited about it. That will be in August, I think. Glad the BoDeans are still great to hear. There is something about outdoor music and summer that just go together.
We were at Pride on Saturday and listened to a little bit of music on the outdoor stages. The weather wasn’t cooperating in the afternoon. But I heard yesterday (day of the parade) there were over 135,000 people downtown near Loring Park for Pride. The weather yesterday was perfect.
I’ve gone to the parade in other years, but I’m not fond of the sardine sandwich effect that happens in the park afterwards. After the parade everyone funnels into tiny Loring Park (it’s across from the Walker Art Center). I mean it would have been wall to wall people yesterday. I was happy for the Saturday stroll. 8)
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Going to a concert with your children is a trip. About 20 years ago, I took my daughter to a Grateful Dead concert. She was 8. She was in the DARE program. She was shocked. 5 years later, she wouldn’t let me go to the Dead concert with her. But I love your description of your dancing and I think children should see us like that every once in awhile, although sometimes it scares them that Mom might have a part of her that belongs just to her.
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Thanks, yb, for sharing your get-a-way. Your detailed descriptions of music, food, shopping and relaxing with your family provided a sensory “vacation” for me.
I’m heading down to Taos next Sunday and can hardly wait now that you’ve reminded me of the deliciousness of it!
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Oh, YB, you make me long for Taos! Thank you for taking me back there with you and your family. I miss it.
p.s I love the BoDeans. They’re in Milwaukee this week for Summerfest.
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yess thanks for sharing. ahh i wish i could go.
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That was joyful and fun – thanks for chronicling your trip.
My favorite photo is the pink hollyhock blossom – That is the official flower of Taos, the hollyhocks!
We had some there that must have been ancient, a maroon so dark it was almost black.
They grow out of the hardest earth, with no water, and they are just spectacular, adorning the simplest plot of land with no requirements.
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Franny, my girls have both done DARE, and at least for now, the cautions and information seem to have made an impression. Keeping my fingers crossed.
breathepeace, how cool that you’re coming on Sun. Will you be here for the July retreat? I can’t remember what dates that one falls on. I think you might hit an early monsoon season. It’s been overcast lately.
jude, I was surprised by how good the BoDeans sound. I mean, not that I expected them to be not good, but their sound was just so alive and up.
Thanks, lissa. Have you been to Taos? It’s a special place for sure.
lil, the hollyhock is an amazing flower. It’s almost as if they need that hard earth and no water. I planted some seeds in a shaded flower garden a few weeks back, and because it also has delphiniums and columbine, I’ve been watering. I probably oversoaked the hollyhocks.
BTW, I’ll let Jim know you liked that photo. He took most of them on this post.
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ybonesy,
Years ago, I got to enjoy the Taos Solar Music Fest. Its a great event! Good to see all enjoyed it.
I’ve always liked Taos. Its a town of extremes; the high mountains, the deep gorge, the sage brush desert, the pueblo. Its a cool place.
MM
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yb, yes, coming for the retreat. Natalie invited Janine and me to assist with this retreat with the topic on a sense of place.
Natalie is teaching with Wendy Johnson. Wendy’s book on “Gardening at the Dragon’s Gate” was just released this year. Natalie told us a story about it at the intensive … about the deer’s bones on the compost pile. Do you remember it? The very first retreat I attended 10 years ago with Natalie was with Wendy, also. She did a reading from this book … and now it is published. It gives me a healthy respect for the timeline.
The itinerary for the retreat offers that we will float in the Rio Grande. I hope that the weather cooperates. I loved it when we were able to do that at the intensive!
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Ha, been watching Glastonbury on the box and said to my other half that we must take the boys when they’re old enough to enjoy it and we’re not too old to show em up! Love the energy and exuberance in this post, really made me smile….(and *huge grin* at the leather halter top).
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Hey johemmant, I was curious to see what Glastonbury was, so I looked it up (LINK). That’s *some* festival they throw. Forty venues, and tons of bands and performers. Wow. It looks wild.
I saw that Crowded House played this year. That’s another one of my favorite bands. (QM, also Amy Winehouse played this year.) Yay, that one is going to take a lot of energy; hope you do go.
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breathepeace, floating down the Rio Grande sounds gorgeous. I think the weather will hold for you. There’s plenty of sun, like this morning. The clouds build up in the afternoon.
Natalie told us a story about it at the intensive … about the deer’s bones on the compost pile. Do you remember it? I don’t remember this story. I’m racking my brain, but it’s not coming up.
The very first retreat I attended 10 years ago with Natalie was with Wendy, also. She did a reading from this book … and now it is published. It gives me a healthy respect for the timeline. This is amazing. And yes, it would give one respect for the timeline, the process, and showing up. How great that you (and Janice) not only get to attend but also are going to assist. Maybe a guest post on the experience? Think about it.
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MM, Taos is a town of extremes, isn’t it? Very perceptive. I’m not sure I would have seen that, even though it’s quite evident when you think about it. Also, the extremes of how people live there.
Hey, you’ll be here soon, yes? Let me know.
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breathepeace, how wonderful for you and Janine! Yes, do think about a post for red Ravine. Those experiences change us. I’ve done the Rio Grande float a few times and it is so inviting and wonderful. I have strong, wonderful sensory memories of that part of past retreats. Especially when we did it as part of the silence. Talk about waking up!
Hmmm. I don’t remember the deer bones on the compost pile story either. Seems like something I would remember. I’ll have to think about it more.
The 10-year timeline for writing, completing, publishing a book — I can totally understand it. My process is as slow as a turtle and I am finding it just can’t be rushed. There is a lot of incubation time and, yes, showing up. It’s very humbling.
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Hey, ybonesy, tell Jim the photos are great in this post. I’m not sure which ones are his, and which are yours, but it’s really hard to get good concert shots. And those are excellent, especially the way the gestures are captured. (It can be hard to shoot people. It’s very different from shooting nature, landscapes, or objects.) The photos have a wholeness to them, a kind of documentary feel of capturing the whole weekend. Part of that is probably your great layout, too. The photographs tell a story next to your written story. Love that!
Oh, one more thing — Go BoDeans!
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Yb…I have to tell you this has to be my most favorite post of yours so far!!
I found the images wonderful..I especially love the last one! Your words were interesting, informative, and I am still laughing at some of your comments!
Oh…now I am sitting here with a headset on listening to the music. You introduced me to some new artists!!
So thank you for a great post today, because I very much needed a lift. :O
Sending you healing energies…especially for your shins! 🙂
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Thanks so much, suz! I hope you like the music. It’s all so different and yet beautiful.
Your healing vibes must be working. (That and a visit to Dr. L.) My back feels 100% better, and my calves and shins, too. Thanks again.
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yb, I so enjoyed this post. Nothing to say but wonderful, awesome & sounds like a great family event! (rock on!)
Jim’s photos, awesome as always! Glad you had such fun! D
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