Sweet Boy Chaco, February 22nd, 1996 — June 25th, 2009, Minneapolis, Minnesota, BlackBerry Shots, December 2009, photo © 2009-2010 by QuoinMonkey. All rights reserved. Sometimes you mark the passage of time by the death of a beloved pet. It’s been a year since we made the tough decision to let Chaco go after a brave [...]
Archive for June, 2010
For Chaco — Dust & Bones
Posted in 13 Moons, Animals & Critters, Body, Bones, Culture, Death, Family, Holding My Breath, Life, Love, Obituaries & Epitaphs, Personal, Photography, Poetry, Relationships, Seasons, Wake Up, tagged Accept loss forever, acceptance, anniversary of Chaco's death, ashes to ashes, black cats, cats, Chaco, Chaco Dust, Charles Simic, dust to dust, grief, healing powers of poetry, In Memoriam, Little Unwritten Book, losing pets, missing Chaco, mourning, mourning pet loss, pets, poems about death, the passage of time, Walking The Black Cat on June 29, 2010 | 16 Comments »
Children In Vietnam
Posted in Dreams, Family, Fotoblog, Gratitude, Great Places To Write, Holding My Breath, Life, Love, On the Road, Personal, Photography, Place, Relationships, Skies, Travel, Vision, tagged adventure, adventures in other countries, international travel, making memories, motherhood, mothering, mothers and daughters, parenting, photos of children in Vietnam, traveling in Vietnam, traveling to Vietnam, traveling with children, Vietnam, Vietnam excursions, ybonesy in Vietnam on June 23, 2010 | 13 Comments »
Here I am, crouching in front of a temple in Hue, surrounded by children. They squeal, I smile. They tug at me, I hug them. When my guide enters the courtyard and sees me, he marches toward me, beside himself. He pulls me up from the spot where [...]
June Moon
Posted in 13 Moons, Haiku, Holding My Breath, Nature, Practice, Seasons, Skies, Wake Up, tagged cycles, everything turns, Fourth Moon (June), moon, shadows & light, skywatching, Strawberry Moon, summer in Minnesota, Summer Solstice on June 21, 2010 | 9 Comments »
June Moon, BlackBerry Shots, Minneapolis, Minnesota, June 2010, photo © 2010 by QuoinMonkey. All rights reserved. tall, green month of June holding Summer’s pale, blue face — the Strawberry Moon -posted on red Ravine, Summer Solstice, June 21st, 2010 -related to posts: Strawberry Moon, haiku 2 (one-a-day), Baby Eagles At Summer Solstice, 15 Hours, 36 [...]
Got (Soy) Milk?
Posted in Body, Bones, Family Recipes, Food, Gratitude, Growing Older, Love, Random, tagged anti-menopause foods, cafe con leche, coffee, comfort food, Food, food habits, leche con cafe, morning rituals, rituals, soy and menopause, soy beans, soy milk, soy milk and coffee beverage recipe, the benefits of soy milk, the coffee habit on June 18, 2010 | 8 Comments »
Got (Soy) Milk?, morning fix of soymilk and coffee, photo © 2010 by ybonesy. All rights reserved. I picked up my milk habit in Granada, Spain, in 1986. There my morning ritual was to walk out the door, hop the narrow cobblestone road to the bar across the way, and order a tall glass of [...]
haiku for the IX of Wands
Posted in Art, Body, Bones, Holding My Breath, Life, Practice, Relationships, Spirituality, Structure, Vision, Wake Up, tagged Don't take anything personally, IX of Wands, Mary Hanson-Roberts, Oracles, Pamela Colman Smith, pulling the Tarot, rituals, Tarot, Universal Waite Tarot on June 13, 2010 | 2 Comments »
IX Of Wands, Minneapolis, Minnesota, June 2010, photo © 2010 by QuoinMonkey. All rights reserved. point your chariot in another direction weary IX of Wands -posted on red Ravine, Sunday, June 13th, 2010 -related to posts: PRACTICE — Don’t Take Anything Personally — 15min, haiku 2 (one-a-day), WRITING TOPIC — THE FOUR AGREEMENTS
PRACTICE — Don’t Take Anything Personally — 15min
Posted in Body, Bones, Holding My Breath, Life, Love, Personal, Practice, Spirituality, Structure, Topic Writing, Vision, Wake Up, Writing Practices, tagged art as healer, compassion, don Miguel Ruiz, Don't take anything personally, empathy, Oracles, Pamela Colman Smith, pulling the Tarot, rituals, setting boundaries, Tarot, The Four Agreements, the value of the Arts, Universal Waite Tarot on June 13, 2010 | 4 Comments »
I pulled the IX of Wands this morning. Holding a single stave in front of me, eight more forming the wall behind, the line drawn in the sand. Mr. Stripeypants jumped from the window to the couch, setting a perimeter around Kiev so he would not have to confront her, threaten her. It’s instinctual for [...]
PRACTICE: Don’t Take Anything Personally — 15min
Posted in Bones, Dreams, Family, Film / TV / Video, Personal, Practice, Topic Writing, Writing Practices, tagged Don't take anything personally, Dreams, Miguel Ruiz, not taking things personally, remembering dreams, taking things personally, The Four Agreements on June 13, 2010 | 10 Comments »
This assumption lets us off the hook. “Nothing others do is because of you.” You’re not the center of the world. You’re not the cause of others’ anguish. You own what you do; they own what they do. That sounds easy. Do I take things personally? I like to think that this particular agreement is [...]
Fourteen Dozen Roses: The World As The Jungle It Is
Posted in Body, Bones, Death, Dreams, Family, Growing Older, Jugular, Life, Love, Obituaries & Epitaphs, Personal, Poetry, Relationships, tagged Alzheimer's, death of a grandfather, Erin Robertson, excavating memories, family memories, freestyle poetry, friends and enemies, funerals, ginkgo leaves, ginkgo tattoo, granddaughters, graves, honoring death, honoring the past, honoring those who came before us, poems about death, poetry as healer, red Ravine Guests, tattoos on June 7, 2010 | 33 Comments »
By Erin Robertson I wish I could say I was closer to my grandfather, but as the years went on and his Alzheimer’s progressed, it began to get harder just to see him. We watched him suffer so his death was something of a relief. In a time of mourning, I wrote this piece: Fourteen [...]
rosedrops in the rain haiku
Posted in Body, Bones, Haiku, Holding My Breath, Life, Nature, Photography, Practice, Seasons, Wake Up, tagged BlackBerry 365, BlackBerry shots, cleansing, Letting Go of What Cannot Be Held Back, rain, raindrops, rosedrops, roses, the practice of haiku, walking in the rain, water on June 6, 2010 | 6 Comments »
Rosedrops In The Rain – 156/365, BlackBerry 365 Project, Minneapolis, Minnesota, June 2010, photo © 2010 by QuoinMonkey. All rights reserved. roseheart pouring out left me warm and dripping wet standing in the rain -posted on red Ravine, Sunday, June 6th, 2010 -related to post: haiku 2 (one-a-day)
PRACTICE — Don’t Make Assumptions — 15min
Posted in Body, Bones, Culture, Death, Holding My Breath, Life, Personal, Practice, Relationships, Spirituality, Topic Writing, Writing Practices, tagged Be impeccable with your word, circles, don Miguel Ruiz, Don't make assumptions, letting go, Letting Go of What Cannot Be Held Back, Miguel Ruiz, spiritual agreements, The Four Agreements on June 6, 2010 | 7 Comments »
It’s hard not to make assumptions. I make general assumptions about the way I think people should live every day. I expect honesty, forthrightness, that people are generally good. I expect people to honor their word, and want to believe they are telling the truth. These are all assumptions. Then I start thinking about values, [...]
PRACTICE: Don’t Make Assumptions – 15min
Posted in Bones, Nature, Personal, Practice, Topic Writing, Wake Up, Writing Practices, tagged assumptions, don Miguel Ruiz, Don't make assumptions, letting go, making assumptions, Miguel Ruiz, The Four Agreements on June 5, 2010 | 9 Comments »
I’m sitting on the patio, the last of the cool morning air hanging on here with me. I listen to the energetic gurgle of two waterfalls in the pond. Notice that I don’t make assumptions about nature. I don’t assume anything about the water in the pond, well, except that it’s not potable. The mosquito [...]






























